For some parents getting teens to open up and talk can feel like trying to crack a safe without the code. Because parents are hard wired to support their offspring, they want to know what is going on in their lives. On the other hand, teenagers are beginning to pull away seeking autonomy and independence. These two opposing forces can create a lot of tension and friction within the family. Finding out what is going on with them and how they are feeling can often be frustrating and slow. As...